Aggression

I was recently told by my friend that I am aggressive in general and have strong opinion about each and everything. I was taken back by his statement, not that I felt bad or something, but to know that I am aggressive.

This takes me back to my childhood days, when I never asked for anything, nor did I cribbed. I was labelled as a simple good boy, who never says No and agrees with everything what others say. Some of these traits are true today also; but, now I do have strong opinion about many things which I feel are not correct. Give me a logic to make me believe that my thought process is going in wrong direction and I will readily accept your viewpoint.

But from where has this aggression come in me?
1. Hereditary
2. Friends
3. College
4. My job
5. Tough situations which I faced on planet earth(This takes care of each and everything else)

I have faced a lot of tough situations till date, where I have to take a decision which doesnot please all,which obviously I wouldn't like to share on this forum. But all this taught me good lessons and made me strong to handle more situations in future.

Like to end this with one of the statements which I like, "When the going gets tough, the tough get going"